By Ray Pride Pride@moviecitynews.com
What a mouth: transcribing Henry Jaglom
Conversing at SF Chronicle’s John Stanley, veteran four-waller Henry Jaglom is
more a jag-man talking about his latest blabfest, Shopping: “My mother never told me just because I was a male I couldn’t participate in the girl’s world of buying a new wardrobe… She gave me the opening to see what a female life was like. I was in school getting into trouble, but after I shopped for a whole weekend I became much easier going.
“Suddenly, I was happy. The contrast was profound. My whole focus became fun. Life became a game as opposed to the serious values of the all-boys school I was attending. I became relaxed around women. I found out women talk about themselves. They have a sense of play. They have a way of bonding with each other that’s different from men. Men are not supposed to play. They have their manhood to consider. But women, they play all their lives. They just want to have fun. That’s why women are so special. They remain free-spirited, joyful. I never forgot that, and all my life I’ve loved to shop. I hope I’m still a kid having fun in a department store.” Men “are pragmatic about shopping… ‘I need a pair of pants,’ and that’s it. Some men are uncomfortable shopping, especially with women. But if a man can enjoy shopping with a woman, he has discovered an important way to bond. But what fascinates me most about women shoppers — shopping becomes a metaphor for things not going right in their lives, or things that are going right. If I learned anything new, it is the extreme psychological depth women plunge to when they buy. It’s a way of resolving issues. A woman has this instinct to find something new and pretty. Something to give them an upper. Shopping ultimately is this wonderful self-protective mechanism.” Did Stanley cut anything from this interview? There’s even more at the link.