Politics Archive for June, 2009
Call it Like it Is
Today on Huffington Post, writer Ayelet Waldman has a piece up in response to the murder of abortion doctor George Tiller, and the experience she and her husband (acclaimed novelist Michael Chabon) went through in deciding to have a late-term abortion to terminate a pregnancy after tests showed their baby had a genetic abnormality. What struck me most about this piece, apart from its raw honesty, was the way in which Waldman talks about their decision and their child.
Not once in the essay does she refer to their lost baby as a “fetus,” viable or not. Her words are personal, painful, as she describes the days between learning their unborn child had a problem, and the day of the scheduled procedure to end the pregnancy: Over the weekend, we felt our baby kicking. We knew what the procedure would do to him. He had a name. You can still feel, all these years later, the pain these memories cause her.
A name. A baby. A child. A future. A loss.
I applaud Waldman both for writing the piece and for calling it like it is. I am very much pro a woman’s right to make decisions about her own body, but I’ve always been opposed to any attempt to spin abortion as something other than what it is: the death of a baby — or at least the death of the potential to grow into a baby, a child, a teenager, an adult. A zygote or a fetus in its mother’s womb will (unless man or nature interferes) grow to be a baby. Not a chimpanzee, or a tree, or an apple. Pro-lifers use this to their advantage in spinning the idea of abortionists as evil baby murderers. We do nothing to further our cause by allowing the focus of the abortion debate to be over the semantics of fetus vs. baby; the issue is the right of the woman to control her body.